Type: Story to promote deep healing.
Benefits: Created to help children & adults overcome the fear of abandonment.
Structure: 4 Tracks including voice & music
Format: MP3 & CD
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The fear of being left alone, uncared for or unloved must be one of the deepest fears that every human experiences. It underpins many other kinds of fears. The effect of this on individual children ranges from a low level fear that results in attention seeking behaviour and co-dependence throughout life, through to high level fear that results in relationship and social disorders as well as self destructive behaviours later in life.
The good news is that it’s never too late to have a happy childhood and therefore greater personal freedom as an adult. This means that regardless of your past or present fears and their effect on your current beliefs and personality, healing, transformation and empowerment can occur, and that’s what this recording is all about.
Luca’s Island is a story that includes guided visualizations and metaphors that facilitate a natural and positive transformative process. Although this recording was created for children, anyone of any age can enjoy this wonder-filled healing journey.
A common cause of the fear of abandonment is when children are left to cry themselves to sleep. Just one occurrence of this popular method of teaching children to go to sleep by themselves is enough to initiate the fear of abandonment, as agreed by early development professionals, including family physician Dr Gabor Maté, who states that:
People cannot consciously recall what they “learned” in the first year of life, because the brain structures that store narrative memory are not yet developed. But neuropsychological research has established that human beings have a far more powerful memory system imprinted in their nervous systems called intrinsic memory. Intrinsic memory encodes the emotional aspects of early experience, mostly in the prefrontal lobe of the brain. These emotional memories may last a lifetime. Without any recall of the events that originally encoded them, they serve as a template for how we perceive the world and how we react to later occurrences.
You can read Dr Maté’s article “Why I no longer believe babies should cry themselves to sleep”, here.
Including bedtime trauma, the root causes of the fear of abandonment might stem from earlier events, as suggested by the following early development professionals:
Obstetrician, Dr. Michael Odent, suggests that the quality of life in the womb, during birth and post-birth lays the foundation for a loving and altruistic relationship with fellow humans, or conversely for a mistrusting and aggressive attitude toward society. Daniel Siegel, clinical professor of psychiatry confirms in his book “The Mindful Brain” that our earliest experiences shape the narrative of our lives. Dr. Marcy Axness, an early development specialist states in her book “Parenting for peace” that the baby’s experience during birth significantly influences that child’s psychological development. In his book “Psychology of the future”, psychiatrist Stan Grof makes it clear that the way in which baby’s are treated around the time of birth sets the course for that individual’s emotional and social development throughout life. The field of Perinatal Psychology has confirmed that the potential for a fear of abandonment to manifest is associated with the baby being removed from their mother within the first couple hours of birth.
Clearly the fear of abandonment is something that affects all of us, and the severity of these affects differs from one individual to the next. In any case, the fear of abandonment is the unconscious emotion responsible for many of our anti-social and destructive behaviours, as well as the relationship issues that are common in our society.
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The Luca’s Island recording will help you and/or your child overcome the fear of abandonment. Imagine a life governed by this fear…and imagine a life that is freed from it!
Price: €19 (MP3 download) / €29 (CD) + shipping
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